I want to go to classes to memorise Qur’an. Is it permissible for me to go out when I am in ‘iddah, or it is not permissible?
Praise be to Allah.
We understand from this question that was submitted to the
website that what is meant by the ‘iddah in this question is the ‘iddah
following divorce (talaaq). Based on that, it should be pointed out to the
sister who is asking this question that the ‘iddah following divorce
(talaaq) must be one of two things:
1.
Either ‘iddah following a
revocable divorce
2.
Or ‘iddah following an
irrevocable divorce.
In the first case: she is observing ‘iddah following a
revocable divorce. She may go out to the mosque or to Qur’an classes on
condition that her husband give her permission, because the woman who is
revocably divorced is still a wife, with the same rights and duties as other
wives.
It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that he used to say: If a man
has divorced his wife once or twice, she should not go out of her house
except with his permission.
Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah in his Musannaf, 4/142
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The
more correct view is that if the divorced woman’s divorce is revocable, then
she is like a wife who has not been divorced, i.e., she may go out to visit
her neighbours or relatives, or to go to the mosque to listen to talks and
so on. She is not like the one whose husband has died. With regard to the
verse (interpretation of the meaning): “and
turn them not out of their (husbands’) homes, nor shall they (themselves)
leave” [at-Talaaq 65:1],
what is meant by turning them out is leaving, i.e., she should not leave the
house and go out and live somewhere else.
End quote from Fataawa Noor ‘ala ad-Darb.
An-Nawawi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: If she is
revocably divorced, then she is still a wife; he still has to take care of
her maintenance, and she should not go out except with his permission.
End quote from Rawdat at-Taalibeen, 8/416
In the second case: she is permanently divorced, whether she
is completely divorced and cannot go back to her husband unless she marries
another man in a genuine marriage, then he divorces her or dies (baynoonah
kubra), such as when the number of talaaqs has been used up, or she is
completely divorced but may go back to him with a new marriage contract (baynoonah
sughra), such as when she has asked him for khula‘ in return for
compensation, or the marriage has been annulled because of some defect. In
this case it is permissible for her to go out, even if it is without
permission, because she is no longer a wife.
It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with
him) that he used to say: If a woman has been divorced, then she may come to
the mosque and it is her right to do so, but she should not stay overnight
anywhere except in her house, until her ‘iddah has ended.
Al-Mudawwanah, 2/42
It says in Mughni al-Muhtaaj, 5/174: The woman in
‘iddah who is completely divorced by means of khula‘ or three talaaqs is not
entitled to of maintenance or clothing at all, because she is no longer a
wife. Her case is similar to that of the one whose husband has died. End
quote.
In Haashiyat al-Bayjurmi, 4/90 it says: With regard to
the one who is entitled to maintenance, such as one who is divorced but
still in her ‘iddah, or one who is completely divorced but pregnant, they
should not go out for that except with the permission of the husband, like
any other wife, because he is still obliged to provide them with
maintenance. However, the one who is pregnant may go out for purposes other
than seeking maintenance, as mentioned by as-Subki and others. End quote.
To sum up:
If a woman is in ‘iddah following a revocable divorce, it is
not permissible for her to go out except with her husband’s permission. But
if she is in ‘iddah following an irrevocable divorce, then she may go out if
she needs to, even if that is without permission, because she is no longer a
wife.
And Allah knows best.
