Is it permissible to lie to the doctor and therapist if he asks whether you drink alcohol or have sex, by way of concealing one’s faults? How should one conceal one’s faults in such a situation, when it may affect the soundness and precision of the diagnosis due to lack of information?
Praise
be to Allah
The basic principle is that it is obligatory to conceal one’s
faults, and that a person should not expose himself when Allah has concealed
him; rather disclosing that may come under the definition of committing sin
openly, and Allah has warned the one who commits sin openly that He will
deprive him of His pardon.
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: I heard the Messenger
of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “All of my ummah
will be fine except those who commit sin openly, and it is part of
committing sin openly for a man to do something at night, then in the
morning when his Lord has concealed him he says: O So and so, I did such and
such last night, when his Lord had concealed him all night, but in the
morning he discloses that which Allah had concealed for him.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5721) and Muslim (2990).
What is required is for the individual to beware of exposing
himself or of telling anyone about such things, unless it is for a valid
shar‘i purpose.
One such purpose is to seek a fatwa concerning oneself, or to
ask about the ruling of Allah concerning someone like him, or to admit that
to the qaadi (judge) so that he may carry out the hadd punishment on him,
and so on.
With regard to the doctor, what appears to be the case that
if there is a valid reason that justifies doing that, such as if one who is
addicted or drinks alcohol tells the doctor about it, and the doctor is
specialised in dealing with such things, so that he can help him to treat
the problem and give up that bad habit, then in such cases there is a
combination of medical interests, the interest of treating that disease, and
spiritual interests, which will be served by giving up that immoral deed and
major sin, and repenting from it. Everything that may help a person to give
up evil is prescribed in his case, and is either obligatory or recommended.
But if there is no valid reason or interest that it is hoped
will be served by telling the doctor about such things, then the Muslim
should conceal his faults and refrain from speaking about them, and he
should ask the doctor to overlook the issue.
Usually, a smart doctor has the insight to understand what he
needs to know from these symptoms, so the one who is faced with that problem
has no need to expose himself or tell lies. What he is seeking of treatment
for himself, if treatment is required, the doctor can base on what he sees
in his examination of the patient and on what he understands of the implicit
meaning of he says.
And Allah knows best.
